This is a guide to planning thoughtful, ethical wedding, baby-naming, coming-of-age, funeral, or other commemorative ceremonies, written by members of Humanist and Ethical Organizations. We offer ideas on planning your ceremony, and creating a simple, responsible meaningful event.

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Alternative Gift Registry

There are many ideas for an "alternative" gift registry - from giving gifts directly to global NGOs, such as Heifer.org, or organic gift services, or ways to ask people to donate to causes you support.

Here is a new suggestion: www.newdream.org

"It's the thought that counts, right? Well....when gifts are based on something other than your tastes and values, they can be downright hilarious—and wasteful. Take control of your participation in holidays and special occasions and promote more meaningful, environmentally-responsible exchange with the Alternative Gift Registry.

You can give and receive gifts that complement your value system: the registry makes it easy to choose immaterial, homemade, second-hand, and environmentally-friendly gifts."

You might also suggest guests offer small gifts (as little as $25) to Kiva.org, a micro-lending program. You can track the progress of your supported project, and you can also buy gift certificates in honor of the couple.

You can also check out the more mainstream Idofoundation.org, which provides placecards and party favors indicating ethical donations, and a gift registry with a percentages donated to the charity of your choice. You can choose your own charity, including any of the ones we've listed.

Be sure to check out your charity on Guidestar.com,(free registration) where you can verify a charity and check their financials, in addition to lots of other useful information. Also use Charity Navigator. You can encourage online donations at Networkforgood, which will also issue tax receipts.

Here is our own Ethical donation list of charities and ngos we support.
Here is our list of alternative gift registries on agreenbride. Send us your suggestions.
Here is a list of fair trade and green companies for a traditional gift registry.