Couples often choose the Massachusetts ruling on Freedom to Marry as a wedding reading:
Excerpt from Goodridge v. Dept. Of Public Health, introduction by Massachusetts Supreme Court Chief Justice Margaret H. Marshall,
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"Marriage is a vital social institution. The exclusive commitment of two individuals to each other nurtures love and mutual support; it brings stability to our society. … marriage is at once a deeply personal commitment to another human being and a highly public celebration of the ideals of mutuality, companionship, intimacy, fidelity, and family. "It is an association that promotes a way of life, not causes; a harmony in living, not political faiths; a bilateral loyalty, not commercial or social projects."
"Because it fulfills yearnings for security, safe haven, and connection that express our common humanity, marriage is an esteemed institution, and the decision whether and whom to marry is among life's momentous acts of self-definition".
Sometimes national laws and political situations made marriage difficult for some groups, especially in situations where religion seems to intrude into the Universal Declaration of Human Rights, and the Right to Marry. This is especially true of places where women's rights are not universally upheld:
UDHR: Article 16.
(1) Men and women of full age, without any limitation due to race, nationality or religion, have the right to marry and to found a family. They are entitled to equal rights as to marriage, during marriage and at its dissolution.
(2) Marriage shall be entered into only with the free and full consent of the intending spouses.
(3) The family is the natural and fundamental group unit of society and is entitled to protection by society and the State.
I'm considering another little blog on the political and social barriers to freedom to marry -- more soon. M
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Freedom to marry
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Gay marriage,
Human Rights